Independence is appealing. But there’s a fine line between being independent and acting aloof and detached. People settle down with someone because they regularly reveal a tender side and show the other person that no matter what happens, they are the most important person to them. People need and want someone who’ll be on their side at all times, through thick and thin, someone who ‘has their back”.
Without mothering or smothering here are a couple of examples of showing you care: Bringing them a treat when they tell you they aren’t feeling well or complimenting them on a job well done at work or home. These are tiny gestures that mean a lot and express that the other person is on your mind. Respectfully defend your significant other, don’t take another’s side against them. This is actually a huge gesture that speaks volumes.